About Lamina Djata

BDSM became a part of me 5 years ago. It did not take long for me to discover that BDSM is liberating, performative, and therapeutic.

Liberation: it has the potential to free one from the shackles of shame.

Performance: it is ritualistic, honoring the moment and creating the mystical plus-value that is such an important aspect of being human.

And last, psyche's beautiful garden: you could see it as a sad song, twisting and turning traumatic moments and transforming them into something pleasurable, one of the most empowering acts that exist in this world.

Like Belle, I stopped fighting against the hunger. I gathered adventurous experiences, took many classes and an assertive Mistress named Lamina Djata rose amidst this fertile soil.

"Ce que j’ai tenté avec Belle de Jour, c’est de montrer le divorce terrible entre le cœur et la chair, entre un vrai, immense et tendre amour et l’exigence implacable des sens."

Whether you're new, or already seasoned, don't hesitate. I once walked in your footsteps, and sometimes I still do...

Yes I'm a switch for womxn! But not for you silly.

My name is Lamina Djata (she/her), a dominant Alter Ego from a performance artist living in Brussels-Berlin-Antwerp.

Their goal is to use Lamina as a vessel for their most dominant modes of being in order to bring to life some of the most pleasurable fantasies and provide an income for Communitas where it is needed.

"I'm kind of a people pleaser and a sadist... funny, isn't it?"

My journey into BDSM started around ten years ago.
It started with the idea that everything in our social human world revolves about sex & power.
That is of course an exaggeration; love, beauty and connection is what drives us on a deeper level. But, as a disciple of Dionysus, I also believe in the power of madness, lust and pain.

I have a big love for all things sensual.
The senses are our gateway to a whole range of sensations. From the softest shiver to the most intense waves that take over your whole body.
What fascinates me, is that as far as it counts for the body, there is no difference between pain and pleasure, anxiety or arousal…You’re hallucinating all of this anyway.
It's the emotional connection that makes the difference.

There is a beauty in suffering, in overcoming limits and pain.
The one who offers up their agency to gain their ecstasis, is the one who willingly sacrifices their own power and body to gain a more heightened mode of sensational existence.

I have taken different technical classes.
Proficient with his hands, the whip and the belt.
He knows how your body works, how to edge, how to punish, how to relish and how to defile. And don’t make yourself any illusions, your mind will not be ignored either.
Thanks to his master in Philosophy and his broad research in Psychology,
you may expect to be mindfucked without remorse.

The connection between a Dom and a sub is far from ordinary.
The ritual of submission, is almost like prayer to me.
The sub may submit and relinquish all responsibility. One may submerge oneself fully in the liberating fantasy of having no power at all.

On your knees, your hands on your lap, your eyes pointed toward infinity.
Who stands before you?
Are you ready to submit?