BDSM became a part of me 5 years ago. It did not take long for me to discover that BDSM is liberating, performative, and therapeutic.

 

Liberation: it has the potential to free one from the shackles of shame.

 

Performance: it is ritualistic, honoring the moment and creating the mystical plus-value that is such an important aspect of being human.

 

And last, psyche's beautiful garden: you could see it as a sad song, twisting and turning traumatic moments and transforming them into something pleasurable, one of the most empowering acts that exist in this world.

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Like Belle, I stopped fighting against the hunger. I gathered adventurous experiences, took many classes and an assertive Mistress named Lamina Djata rose amidst this fertile soil.

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"Ce que j’ai tenté avec Belle de Jour, c’est de montrer le divorce terrible entre le cœur et la chair, entre un vrai, immense et tendre amour et l’exigence implacable des sens."

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Whether you're new, or already seasoned, don't hesitate. I once walked in your footsteps, and sometimes I still do...

Yes I'm a switch for womxn! But not for you silly.